Choose repeated, lower-pressure environments: Life Group, small club, class study group, intramural team, commuter activity or volunteer project.

• Arrive early.
• Ask one simple question.
• Exchange contact information.
• Suggest one concrete follow-up.
• Return to the same environment.

Consistency usually matters more than attending the biggest event.

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